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	<title>Comments on: Social Insecurity? (no, not about retirement)</title>
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		<title>By: Aaron</title>
		<link>http://blog.amhill.net/2007/04/27/social-insecurity-no-not-about-retirement/#comment-87</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2007 00:45:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the biggest thing I try to remind myself is to not be fearful -- fear is a huge liability when in those kinds of situations. Sure, we all think to ourselves "Well, if *I* was in something like that, I would do ____." But the reality of it is that when a bad circumstance happens to you, it happens really, really fast. Being able to control your fear, stay focused and calm is the best thing you can do, IMHO. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the biggest thing I try to remind myself is to not be fearful &#8212; fear is a huge liability when in those kinds of situations. Sure, we all think to ourselves &#8220;Well, if *I* was in something like that, I would do ____.&#8221; But the reality of it is that when a bad circumstance happens to you, it happens really, really fast. Being able to control your fear, stay focused and calm is the best thing you can do, IMHO. <img src='http://blog.amhill.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Barry Pike</title>
		<link>http://blog.amhill.net/2007/04/27/social-insecurity-no-not-about-retirement/#comment-86</link>
		<dc:creator>Barry Pike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2007 17:13:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, I think about these things, too.  It's not like we live in Detroit or the south side of Chicago (not that there's anything wrong with that), but I am nevertheless reminded of the fact that everyone that I've ever heard of and have ever known personally who was a victim of a "hard" crime has, without exception, said that they could not believe that it happened to them.   While I have not experienced anything like this myself, like you, I have friends and family who have unexpectedly found themselves in very difficult situations.  Recently, one of these friends, who actually lives nearby (out here in the country), stopped by his home in the middle of the day and surprised two strangers ransacking and robbing his house.  They jumped him, worked him over, and then fled.  Fortunately, he is okay and they were caught not long after that.  But it will be years before he and his family completely recover emotionally.

Personally, I don't think the answer lies in "what we can do as a community," but rather in what we can do personally.    

We are always, in varying degress, going to be vulnerable to crime and unexpected violence.  But rather than just blithely accept our vulnerability, I think everyone needs to think about personal security and take conscious, intentional steps to do what they can to protect the people they love.  I have always encouraged my family to think proactively and to try to be aware of the possibilities of unexpected danger.  For us, preparedness includes property security, situational awareness, and a basic understanding of self-defense, including firearm skills.  Like anything else, knowledge, training, and skill works for you.  Most important is the understanding that when something bad does occur, it is virtually always unforeseen and it happens very fast.  Knowing this doesn't mean you won't be surprised, but it may mean that you will be able to recover or react more quickly than if you weren't, even in some small way, mentally prepared.

To think thus does not mean to walk in fear, but rather the opposite.  If anything, it is empowering to know that you are less likely to be a victim simply because you are paying attention, you've accepted some personaly responsibility, and you have armed yourself with some basic survival techniques.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I think about these things, too.  It&#8217;s not like we live in Detroit or the south side of Chicago (not that there&#8217;s anything wrong with that), but I am nevertheless reminded of the fact that everyone that I&#8217;ve ever heard of and have ever known personally who was a victim of a &#8220;hard&#8221; crime has, without exception, said that they could not believe that it happened to them.   While I have not experienced anything like this myself, like you, I have friends and family who have unexpectedly found themselves in very difficult situations.  Recently, one of these friends, who actually lives nearby (out here in the country), stopped by his home in the middle of the day and surprised two strangers ransacking and robbing his house.  They jumped him, worked him over, and then fled.  Fortunately, he is okay and they were caught not long after that.  But it will be years before he and his family completely recover emotionally.</p>
<p>Personally, I don&#8217;t think the answer lies in &#8220;what we can do as a community,&#8221; but rather in what we can do personally.    </p>
<p>We are always, in varying degress, going to be vulnerable to crime and unexpected violence.  But rather than just blithely accept our vulnerability, I think everyone needs to think about personal security and take conscious, intentional steps to do what they can to protect the people they love.  I have always encouraged my family to think proactively and to try to be aware of the possibilities of unexpected danger.  For us, preparedness includes property security, situational awareness, and a basic understanding of self-defense, including firearm skills.  Like anything else, knowledge, training, and skill works for you.  Most important is the understanding that when something bad does occur, it is virtually always unforeseen and it happens very fast.  Knowing this doesn&#8217;t mean you won&#8217;t be surprised, but it may mean that you will be able to recover or react more quickly than if you weren&#8217;t, even in some small way, mentally prepared.</p>
<p>To think thus does not mean to walk in fear, but rather the opposite.  If anything, it is empowering to know that you are less likely to be a victim simply because you are paying attention, you&#8217;ve accepted some personaly responsibility, and you have armed yourself with some basic survival techniques.</p>
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		<title>By: m</title>
		<link>http://blog.amhill.net/2007/04/27/social-insecurity-no-not-about-retirement/#comment-85</link>
		<dc:creator>m</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 12:27:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know, it's not like we live in Detroit.</description>
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